My introduction to this âmass exodusâ comes from âAfrican American Male Touristsâ Exodus to Brazil: Should We Care?â at blackprof.com. This leads to an Essence article by William Jelani Cobb, âMy (Uncensored) Brazil Travel Diary.â Cobb writes, seething with anticipation:
The next woman to run the big-strong-handsome line on me is 5 feet10 inches tall with flawless skin and so fine I canât stop staring. Iâm in a club that works like a supermarket. A series of women dance onstage and you essentially pick the one you like. One minute Iâm drinking with Chris, the bartender, and watching her, the next sheâs off the stage, walking over and introducing herself. She says she saw me from onstage. The thing is, she doesnât speak much English, so her introduction involves kissing me on each cheek and grabbing my hand.
Iâm starting to think itâs not just sex that lures brothers here. Itâs not just about how many women they sleep with or how responsive or skilled the women are. Itâs also about being in a place where theyâre surrounded by limitless sexual options. Iâm told that men routinely pick up two or three women a night, which the rate of exchange makes affordable. Ainât no brother in the States rolling to his crib with three women unless Pharrell produced the first single on his album or he just scored 41 points against the Lakers. Which is to say, this is not about my being big or strong, but about the dollar being big and strong. Now whether the brothers want to admit that is another thing entirely.
William Jelani Cobb then goes on to remind us that:
I just saw a group of 10-to-12-year-old girls on the strip. Theyâre glue addicts. They have sex with tourists. They donât require condoms. Thereâs real poverty here, and shit ainât always pretty.
It takes the typical Roman dominator ignorance to pretend you donât see this poverty and concentrate on the upscale commercial companions (unless you are into straight-up Roman domination). And I have to ask myself, âBryan can you do this?â Is it possible for me to, say, rent an apartment (with female companion) for a week, enjoy sensuality and leave?
According to âSex, Brazil and the Brothersâ by Richard Prince we must remember the âofficialâ facts:
The State Department has Brazil on its watch list for human trafficking. The department said in its 2006 trafficking report: âBrazil is a source and destination country for women and children trafficked for the purpose of sexual exploitation, and for men trafficked for forced labor. Women and girls are trafficked for sexual exploitation within Brazil and to destinations in South America, the Caribbean, Western Europe, Japan, the U.S., and the Middle East.â
âApproximately 70,000 Brazilians, mostly women, are engaged in prostitution in foreign countries; some are trafficking victims. Child sex tourism is a problem within the country, particularly in the resort areas and coastal cities of Brazilâs northeast.â The department put Brazil in its âTier 2â category, meaning the country is not fully complying with minimum standards for fighting trafficking.
One thing that is certain about me is that even my ego, I, do not enjoy engaging in sex while other people (apart from my, one, female sex partner) know that my intercourse is taking place. Gang-related sex, where a group of males share a single partner (at the same time or across days, weeks or months) was never my thingâbecause I come from the nerd camp, not the jock/soldier camp. These comments do not suggest my âmoralâ superiority over the jocks and soldiers. Iâm just telling you what happened and how my thang is set up because of what happened.
What would be very, very interesting to me is to read a report from a tall, lean, stunning Brazilian woman with strong African features who is a working professional (in a field unrelated to the oldest working profession) trying to live her life in such a tourist culture. Does she have stories about being mistaken for a prostitute? (When my father went on vacation in the Bahamas in the 1980s he was mistaken for a gigolo by female sex tourists.) Does she prefer Black men (in spite of her professional education) because she knows we make âstrong loveâ? Does she have a relative that chose a life of sex working and can make startling comparisons and contrasts?