“The Internet Needs More Afripedia” and other Twinks…

the kinte space [KinteSpace] The Internet Needs More Afripedia – An Interview with Teddy Goitom, the Ethiopian/Eritrean Film Producer Behind It [shadowandact.com]

the kinte space [KinteSpace] The moment one woman stands up to more than 300 Nazis and refuses to let them pass [dailymail.co.uk] [twitter.com]

the kinte space [KinteSpace] As a single parent, I’m one emergency away from financial chaos [blavity.com]

the kinte space [KinteSpace] “Popcorn is amazingly filling and goes pretty far. When you’re homeless, you really don’t think about nutrition.” [homelessalone.blogspot.com]

the kinte space [KinteSpace] Medical error is third biggest cause of death in the US, experts say [theguardian.com]

the kinte space [KinteSpace] Former Death Row Prisoner Moreese Bickham Dies at 98: He Served 37 Years for Killing Klansmen Cops [democracynow.org]

the kinte space [KinteSpace] George Jackson: Revolutionary and Left-Wing Activist, Even From Behind Bars [blackthen.com]

the kinte space [KinteSpace] Action Figures Show Us the Nonsense That Women Face at Work [wired.com]

the kinte space [KinteSpace] If You Think Free Money Kills Work Ethic, Your Definition of “Work” Is Horrible [crossingenres.com]

the kinte space [KinteSpace] Santa Monica Museum of Art changes its name and selects new location in downtown L.A. @mikemassenburg [topix.com]

the kinte space [KinteSpace] Nightmarish transition from Verizon to Frontier has no end in sight [arstechnica.com]

the kinte space [KinteSpace] FBI Harassing Core Tor Developer, Demand Meeting, but Refusing to Explain Why [techdirt.com]

the kinte space [KinteSpace] Nine years of censorship, Canadian scientists are now allowed to speak out about their work [nature.com]

the kinte space [KinteSpace] AirBnbWhileBlack Highlights Discrimination Faced by Black Travelers [huffingtonpost.com]

the kinte space [KinteSpace] The Subtle Design Features That Make Cities Feel More Hostile [atlasobscura.com]

the kinte space [KinteSpace] Raising Speed Limits Is Irresponsible, But States Keep Doing It Anyway [wired.com]

the kinte space [KinteSpace] The Loneliness of Being Black in San Francisco @libertymadison [nytimes.com]

#ThatTechGirl [libertymadison] This is the targeted mention I have ever received 😆😁 The Solution is 8 min to Oakland!! 😉 [twitter.com]

the kinte space [KinteSpace] Millennials and the Working Class Are Leaving America’s Expensive Cities [citylab.com]

the kinte space [KinteSpace] Google: End of the Online Advertising Bubble [kalkis-research.com]

the kinte space [KinteSpace] Apple is now run by a guy who is more like John Sculley than Steve Jobs [recode.net]

the kinte space [KinteSpace] Most Ordinary Americans in 2016 Are Richer Than Was John D. Rockefeller in 1916 [cafehayek.com]

the kinte space [KinteSpace] Winston Churchill Gets a Doctor’s Note to Drink “Unlimited” Alcohol in Prohibition America (1932) [openculture.com]

the kinte space [KinteSpace] How OxyContin became one of America’s most widely abused prescription drugs [static.latimes.com]

the kinte space [KinteSpace] 0.0% of Icelanders 25 years or younger believe God created the world [icelandmag.visir.is]

the kinte space [KinteSpace] Half Of Teens Think They’re Addicted To Their Smartphones [hardware.slashdot.org]

the kinte space [KinteSpace] In Search Of A Healthy Gut, One Man Turned To An Extreme DIY Fecal Transplant @tamtamsworld [science.slashdot.org]

the kinte space [KinteSpace] also on @netflix: Sembene! [amazon.com] [twitter.com]

the kinte space [KinteSpace] The dark sci-fi art behind the new Doom [theverge.com]

the kinte space [KinteSpace] Ousmane Sembene: The Making of a Militant Artist by Samba Gadjigo [amazon.com] [twitter.com]

the kinte space [KinteSpace] The Man Behind “The Symbol:” Minneapolis Creative Talks About Collaborating With Prince [blogs.adobe.com]

the kinte space [KinteSpace] Expect a New Harriet Tubman Film That’s “Epic and Sweeping,” Showing How Much of a “Badass” She Was… [shadowandact.com]

the kinte space [KinteSpace] .@RowenaMonde reading light? [by artist Olafur Eliasson and engineer Frederik Ottesen] [amazon.com] [twitter.com]

Rowena M. [RowenaMonde]@KinteSpace that’s lovely, just my style :)

the kinte space [KinteSpace] This desk-sized turbine could power 10,000 homes [futurism.com]

the kinte space [KinteSpace] Tesla Would Need to Absorb Current Global Lithium Capacity to Reach Targets [wsj.com]

the kinte space [KinteSpace] Google’s AI engine is reading 2,865 romance novels to be more conversational @libertymadison @tamtamsworld [theverge.com]

the kinte space [KinteSpace] This Guy Peers Through People’s Open Webcams to Create Art [wired.com]

the kinte space [KinteSpace] The Mysteries of Chickpea Water, a Magical Substitute for Eggs (No, Really) @mindovermunch @overcookedvegan [wired.com]

the kinte space [KinteSpace] did not expect to find UNSWEETENED #vegan creamer (not a coffee drinker): [amazon.com] [twitter.com]

the kinte space [KinteSpace] Founders Of First Major Black-Owned Eco-Friendly Laundry Detergent Company Finding Huge Success: [blacknews.com]

the kinte space [KinteSpace] microwaving your #organic meals? ..try the Hydro Flask: [amazon.com] @MindOverMunch @sweetpotatosoul [twitter.com]

“Amazing portrait “The Bridge” of Dad [via @tamiwrites4you]” and other Twinks…

Tami Outterbridge [tamiwrites4you] Amazing portrait “The Bridge” of Dad #Artist #JohnOutterbridge by #Artist @MikeMassenburg. [twitter.com]

Tami Outterbridge [tamiwrites4you] My shot of @latimes @MelMelconPhoto photographing Dad, #artist #JohnOutterbridge 4 upcoming piece w/ @jessicagelt. [twitter.com]

the kinte space [KinteSpace] Theaster Gates [youtube.com] @junecarol_e @mikemassenburg

the kinte space [KinteSpace] Ben Enwonwu | Problems of the African Artist Today [masterpiz.com]

Framing Blackness [FramingBlacknes] The late, great Ousmane Sembene directing Fatoumata Coulibaly in “Mooladé” (2004) [twitter.com]

CBC Radio [cbcradio] Selma cinematographer Bradford Young is challenging how people of colour are seen in films [cbc.ca] [twitter.com]

the kinte space [KinteSpace] African Diaspora Film Festival Opens With “The Man Who Mends Women…” [blackstarnews.com]

the kinte space [KinteSpace] excellent and chilling line from @avaetc SELMA script when J. Edgar Hoover says, “Dismantle the family.” -not just one family but all of us

the kinte space [KinteSpace] Director Olatunde Osunsanmi @centerwillhold Tackles the Science Behind the Fiction with Hollywood TV/Film Successes [kintespace.com]

Shadow And Act [shadowandact] Watch: ‘Destined to Witness: Growing Up Black in Nazi Germany’ – Hans J. Massaquoi’s Story [blogs.indiewire.com] [twitter.com]

Another Africa [another_africa] In a remodelling of cultural paradigms, Egyptian artist Khaled Hafez constructs a fictitious universe where gods,… [anotherafrica.net]

The Economist [TheEconomist] Like similar museums around the country, Chicago’s DuSable is struggling [economist.com] [twitter.com]

Another Africa [another_africa] In conversation with activist and visual artist Ismael Ogando, on counter narratives and historical re-enactments… [anotherafrica.net]

June Edmonds [JuneCarol_E]#RacistBruin Group Protests UCLA’s Failure to Address Racism, Sexual Violence, and Corporatization [hyperallergic.com] via @hyperallergic

the kinte space [KinteSpace]#BlackOnCampus sheds light on the issues black students face nationwide [blavity.com]

June Edmonds [JuneCarol_E] Your Twitter feed says more about your political views than you think, study says but not in the way you may think – [latimes.com]

REMEZCLA [REMEZCLA] “Women of color basically invented feminism.” – Gloria Steinem. [remezcla.com] [twitter.com]

michael massenburg [mikemassenburg] Cornel West is falling down: 5 takeaways from The New Republic’s Cornel West story [blavity.com] via @Blavity

the kinte space [KinteSpace] The Stream – In the Niger Delta, decades of environmental disaster [Ogoni people; Ken Saro-Wiwa] [youtube.com]

the kinte space [KinteSpace] Satellites Expose Just How Bad Indonesia’s Fires Are [wired.com]

the kinte space [KinteSpace] Colour of pollution: Environmental racism [youtube.com]

the kinte space [KinteSpace] Black Circus Workers Lynched After Being Falsely Accused of Raping White Woman (1920) [blackthen.com]

the kinte space [KinteSpace] Alabama State Apologized 67 Years Later to ‘Recy Taylor’ for Failure to Prosecute Attackers [blackthen.com]

the kinte space [KinteSpace] Looking Black On Today In 1831, Revolutionary Leader, Nat Turner, Was Executed In Virginia [blackthen.com]

the kinte space [KinteSpace] Racist HP Lovecraft will No Longer Represent the World Fantasy Award, 4 Years After Nnedi Okorafor’s Initial Call [bookslive.co.za]

the kinte space [KinteSpace] Looking Black On Today In 1989, L Douglas Wilder Became The First Black Governor In The US [blackthen.com]

the kinte space [KinteSpace] 23 Years Later the Falsely Accused “Central Park Five” Gets Justice [blackthen.com]

the kinte space [KinteSpace] Why does Madagascar go without humanitarian help? [youtube.com] @megafunkmega

the kinte space [KinteSpace] Why the quantified self isn’t always the best path for a healthy life [theverge.com]

the kinte space [KinteSpace] Male suicide now a national public health emergency, MPs warned [telegraph.co.uk]

the kinte space [KinteSpace] Why Did the Death Rate Rise Among Middle-Aged White Americans? [newyorker.com]

the kinte space [KinteSpace] More black people jailed in England and Wales proportionally than in US [theguardian.com]

the kinte space [KinteSpace] Why are Black African graduates the ‘most overqualified’ UK workers? [blavity.com]

the kinte space [KinteSpace] Only 5% of African American Households Have More than $350,000 in Net Worth [blackstarnews.com]

the kinte space [KinteSpace] 7 surprising results when you pay your kids for chores [getrichslowly.org]

the kinte space [KinteSpace] California must stop offering low-income students fake classes [sfchronicle.com] via @sfchronicle

Du Bois Review [DuBoisReview] In “Racialized Modernity” (12.2, forthcoming) scholars reassert Du Bois’ foundational importance to U.S. sociology. [twitter.com]

the kinte space [KinteSpace] Lagos Fashion and Design Week | [models.com] MDX [models.com]

the kinte space [KinteSpace] A Meeting With The Himalayan Sadhu [youtube.com] @liberatormag

Open Culture [openculture] What Ancient Greek Music Sounded Like: Hear a Reconstruction That is ‘100% Accurate’ [openculture.com] [twitter.com]

Tiffany Rayside [tmrDevelops] Also Paradox: [codepen.io] && Coiled Quad: [codepen.io] | via @CodePen | #html5 #javascript [twitter.com]

the kinte space [KinteSpace] got to check out GENIUS PARTY BEYOND #anime on #Netflix @megafunkmega @mariinukai [twitter.com]

the kinte space [KinteSpace] World Scrabble Title Scooped By Nigerian In First For Africa [blackstarnews.com]

the kinte space [KinteSpace] Strange light streaking across Californian sky is actually a Trident missile test [telegraph.co.uk]

the kinte space [KinteSpace] Meet David Lloyd: the man behind the anarchists’ ‘V for Vendetta’ Guy Fawkes mask [telegraph.co.uk]

Mama wa Sukiri [TamTamsWorld] She’s BROKEN, look! Fractures to the legs and arms. I was so proud of this. I’m gonna have to make her again. :'( [twitter.com]

Mama wa Sukiri [TamTamsWorld] YASSS! “@carvh12: “@LyudmilaTomova: “The Bull”, 24 x 36″ #acrylic, latest painted for ROYGBIV [twitter.com] ””

the kinte space [KinteSpace] The Curious Persistence of Poetry Shops [newyorker.com]

Tseday Mekbib [Tseday] As an Ethiopian Orthodox Christian, the +3000 years narrative is my history. It will not to be diminished or altered to accommodate your ego

Sweet Potato Soul [sweetpotatosoul]@KinteSpace@OvercookedVegan Looks so freakin’ good!!

news from kintespace.com ::: 2/28/2009

news from kintespace.com

::: 2/28/2009


  • ::: David Aondona Angya: Broken Marriages
  • ::: Book Review: Ousmane Sembène Interviews
  • ::: DVDs with the Elders

::: David Aondona Angya: Broken Marriages

::: ::: http://kintespace.com/p_david_angya0.html

We are pleased to indulge in our first selection from Dr. Jerry Agada’s labor of love, 500 Nigerian Poets. This Aboki Publishers volume, shipping from 43 New Bridge (Otukpo) Road in Makurdi, Benue State, sings with diversity. It is a rich tapestry of creative vision.

We present only one of the 500 poets, David Aondona Angya. A native of Benue State and a graduate of Benue State University, young David (born in 1976) is a lawyer, preacher, actor and broadcaster. His work, “Broken Marriages,” speaks with near geometric precision about a traditionally messy subject.

::: Book Review: Ousmane Sembène Interviews

::: ::: http://kintespace.com/rasx50.html

It is said that Africa’s first ‘full-blood’ filmmaker is the great Ousmane Sembène of Senegal. The 2008 release of Ousmane Sembène Interviews, edited by Annett Busch of Munich and Max Annas of Cologne, introduces to a new generation of filmmakers a beginning. We often assume that beginnings are times of innocence and naïveté but historical transcripts can blow these melodramatic biases away.

::: DVDs with the Elders

::: ::: http://kintespace.com/rasx49.html

The DVD is an “old” technology for you young cats? Fine. Let’s talk about my favorite DVDs with old cats in them! This collection of goodies includes Brahmanand Swamigal, A Palestinian Grandfather, William C. Westmoreland, Cecil Taylor, Babatunde Olatunji and Ibrahim Ferrer.

news from kintespace.com ::: Tuesday, December 30, 2008


  • ::: Njoki Njehu: What’s Missing in US/Africa Policy?
  • ::: rasx() on film: 2007
  • ::: My Jimi Hendrix Music Collection (YouTube.com)

::: Njoki Njehu: What’s Missing in US/Africa Policy?

::: ::: http://kintespace.com/p_njoki_njehu0.html

The V-Man of FreakRadio.org (now 101.1 FM) in Santa Cruz interviewed African activist Njoki Njehu of Keyna about the 2003 President Bush trip to Africa. At the time of the interview, Njoki Njehu was based in Washington D.C. and recommended several D.C.-related web sites for world-wide activism: transafricaforum.org, africaaction.org and, of course, 50years.org which is her home organization.

Njoki Njehu makes it clear that the Bush visit to Africa was very different from President Clinton’s as the residents of Island of Gorée, a symbol of the African slave trade, were forced, shortly after dawn, into a football stadium as a “safety precaution” during the administrative visit.

::: rasx() on film: 2007

::: ::: http://kintespace.com/rasx48.html

I’m counting 19 articles about film written for the year 2007. That’s one more than the ones written in 2000 through 2006. It’s becoming clear to me that I am very interested in writing about film. I can only hope the hope of the captive that you are just as fascinated with me as I am!

My journeys allow me to visit Mantan Moreland, Bernie Mac, Jim Brown, Spike Lee, Howard Zinn, Alice Walker (and Spike Lee, again), Akira Kurasawa, Yasujiro Ozu, Fernando Meirelles (The Constant Gardener), Charles Burnett, Jeremy Irons, Tupac Shakur, Quincy Jones, Oprah Winfrey, Regis, Kathy Lee, Basquiat, B. Hall, Al Gore, Ousmane Sembène, Kieslowski, Bukowski, Abbas Kiarostami, Oscar Micheaux, Richard Wright, Steve Martin, Rita Levi-Montalcini and many more!

::: My Jimi Hendrix Music Collection (YouTube.com)

::: ::: http://kintespace.com/p_jimi_hendrix0.html

“Happy New Year first of all. I hope we have a million or two million more…” I have been quoting that one for years but the person I heard it from was Jimi Hendrix about to play “Machine Gun” with Billy Cox and Buddy Miles in one of the greatest concerts in the entire history of Rock and Roll.

You cannot possibly overestimate the impact Jimi Hendrix has on me to this day. You see when my grandmother, my mother’s mother, the sister of Blues guitarist Roy Gaines, heaps compliments on a great instrumentalist she would say, “You tore it up!” And nobody tore up a guitar like Jimi Hendrix. He could literally dismantle and rebuild the device while he was playing it. At about 6:40 in this YouTube.com video you begin to see what I am trying to say but the video goes bad and skips over the sequence!

New technology had to be invented in order to accommodate his mod’s. His work with sound designers on Electric Ladyland helped paved the way for more uses of the synthesizer in music (it is important to remember that this album did not use synthesizers). It is quite an easy task to understand how Jimi Hendrix, one of the most highly paid musicians in history, was bigger than his so-called art form. It has taken decades for most of this video content to be made easily available without documentarian cuts and without regard to pristine sound quality. Get all you can now because even YouTube.com will not last forever!

The Jewel Woods “Black Male Privilege” Checklist

Jewel Woods is male. Let’s get that straight. And, without him, I would not have been able to write “Flippant Remarks about the ‘mass exodus of African American male tourists to Brazil’.” So I think it is my Blog-civic duty to respond to (almost) all 94 of the items on “The Black Male Privileges Checklist” (hat-tip to Liberator Magazine for letting me know about this). I do this heavily under the influence that my opinion does not truly matter to the people who should care the most: that would be Black women in particular and contemporary, urban women in general. Too many women are too busy being oppressed (and I just wrote those words in this sentence without any sarcasm) and making conscious/subconscious plans of revenge against male monsters to care about what this “monster” has to say.

The eye of my imagination sees so clearly a woman 100 years from now reading my poem, “void this misogyny,” being driven to tears with the desire to meet me and talk to me because suddenly I am so interesting. Well, guess what lady: 100 years from now I’ll be dead! And I have been using the most advanced communication technology in the history of the white world for over a decade and I have yet to discover any example of this tool being used to its fullest—especially in the world of literary arts. So in an effort to contribute to the future—because the future is always better (as it selects for African genes)—here are my responsible responses:

Leadership & Politics

1. I don’t have to choose my race over my sex in political matters.

“Political matters” is in the marketing department of the business. I’m in the technical department. The very concept of politics and the polloi are foreign to the real me. “Race” is not a real concept for me. Next.

2. When I read African American History textbooks, I will learn mainly about black men.

African American History textbooks are secondary to me. African History has always been my primary concern—even before Michael Jordan (and his dark complexion) became popular with ‘my’ women. African history is about African women. You can spot a pseudo-African snake-oil dealer real quick when he starts talking about Black power without a concern for the English language and no serious prioritization of the regeneration of wisdom-communities of women of color. There is no frickin’ way in the world a group of wise, strong African women would treat me like the shit that supposedly I am according to properly-assimilated “real world” women. So clearly I am biased toward all of us studying the world of wise women. For an example, see “Vandana Shiva: Planting Seeds for Change.”

3. When I learn about the Civil Rights Movement & the Black Power Movements, most of the leaders that I will learn about will be black men.

This item is just like item #2 only framed differently. In addition, here is an excerpt from “My Three Sexist Assumptions of the Apocalypse”:

For you other Negro asses out there who just happen to be reading this, you should have no motherfucking problem recognizing that the Civil Rights Movement is founded upon the social organizing principles of women of African descent. Yes, you want to credit some Negro preacher man in a suit and you want to credit some Quakerly Jewish lawyer but nothing would have happened without organized Black women.

4. I can rely on the fact that in the near 100-year history of national civil rights organizations such as the NAACP and the Urban League, virtually all of the executive directors have been male.

Read these words carefully, written by an award-winning ACT-SO finalist (in poetry of course): f’ the NAACP! The Garveyite bottom line is this: the NAACP was not allowed to own land. It was in the original charter. So, from the beginning, the organization was not designed to grow any real influence or real power. So whatever manhood is in the organization it is no greater than my manhood because at this time I hold no real estate investments outside of a squalid REIT.

5. I will be taken more seriously as a political leader than black women.

I immediately assume that this is reference to mainstream (“white”) authority figures taking seriously. Secondarily, I assume this refers to Black church leaders’ realm of influence. These two populations are temporal to me—these are not of the everlasting so not a concern for me. Get Cynthia McKinney on the phone for this one. I’ll respect her need to talk about this issue.

6. Despite the substantial role that black women played in the Civil Rights Movement and Black Power Movement, currently there is no black female that is considered a “race leader”.

Oprah Winfrey turned that one down in exchange for a larger viewing audience.

7. I can live my life without ever having read black feminist authors, or knowing about black women’s history, or black women’s issues.

This is more toward “American privilege” than Black male privilege. For more details, see “Photograph of Gayl Jones.”

8. I can be a part of a black liberation organization like the Black Panther Party where an “out” rapist Eldridge Cleaver can assume leadership position.

No. I—even I—cannot do that.

9. I will make more money than black women at equal levels of education and occupation.

My personal experience does not agree with this observation. Get Microsoft’s Tammara Combs Turner on the phone for this one. The women who choose my career and have my qualifications make more money than I do—sometimes dramatically more. I heard about one sister (through my Black female head hunter) who bought a house built by one of Frank Lloyd Wright’s assistants. I blame no one but myself for this—when one has to place blame. My number one problem is that I am Black man—many Black women (and more than one wily brother) know how to take a lot of Eurocentric workplace punishment (because, likely, they took a lot of Afro-centric childhood punishment)—and for those women with the technical chops—they will go far, very far. I have trouble fooling meat-and-potatoes guys that I can stomach their corn-beef-hash aesthetic. I explored this back in 2000 in “Bryan Wilhite: An IT Fundamentalist Speaks.”

Now there are Black women who think (through an ironic mixture of self-limiting egocentrism, racism and sexism) they are just as educated as I am and there are Black women who know that I am more educated and trained than they are—and not one of these Black women have ever expressed any serious lasting praise for my accomplishments. When I achieved I assumed I was achieving for my people and my family—and then myself. I found out the hard, hard way that my achievements are largely seen as self-centered, isolated and individualistic. I have heard similar stories of ambivalence from Black women who return home from college only to be dismissed and avoided.

10. Most of the national “opinion framers” in Black America including talk show hosts and politicians are men.

One Oprah Winfrey is worth 10,000 Tavis Smileys.


11. I have the ability to define black women’s beauty by European standards in terms of skin tone, hair, and body size. In comparison, black women rarely define me by European standards of beauty in terms of skin tone, hair, or body size.

This is simply a lie. I have a childhood filled with Black girls identifying my dark skin color as “wrong” in various capacities. Since I actually grew up in a Black working class neighborhood in Los Angeles, my earliest, direct experiences with racism was through these Black girls. And these Black girls are still here to this day. Just because some male-dominated rap videos came out in the last 15 years suddenly it’s us Black men doing all the hating? Hah!

When we just have to get Freudian than know that my mother was flawlessly chocolate—and this is why my light-skinned father was attracted to her. I have my Dad’s taste in women but I also inherited my mother’s view of her dark self through the kind of women I easily attract in my life.

12. I do not have to worry about the daily hassles of having my hair conforming to any standard image of beauty the way black women do.

This is absolutely true. Do read “The Black Hair Thing.”

13. I do not have to worry about the daily hassles of being terrorized by the fear of gaining weight. In fact, in many instances bigger is better for my sex.

I am the child of a mother who was terrorized by her mother about her appearance—including her weight. So even though “I do not have to worry”—my mother was not my servant, she was my mother. And to this day, I can feel her pain. And I largely destroyed much of what “normal” people would call a “normal family life” because of my desire to “save” my mother through relationships with women who were almost supernaturally like my mother. This savior complex of mine was a necessary horror.

14. My looks will not be the central standard by which my worth is valued by members of the opposite sex.

I’m suspicious of this one. As women seek equality with male patriarchal stereotypes, I’m seeing more than a few selecting males for youth and beauty—just like a male would. It is an error to assume that most women—especially properly-assimilated American women—are looking for a companion for some kind of sophisticated psychological experience.

Sex & Sexuality

15. I can purchase pornography that typically shows men defile women by the common practice of the “money shot.”

It is an error to assume that all “healthy” males consume pornography. Serious studies of African history before Islam shows that “healthy” males were indoctrinated into what I call ‘fertility conspiracies’—males were exposed to real, live girls in ritualized, regulated sex games. I understand how totally alien this can be to so-called Afrocentric people—but just perhaps you might understand how this assumption that I consume pornography with “money shots” is insulting to me. I prefer Japanese gravure videos! No nudity and more sexy!

16. I can believe that causing pain during sex is connected with a woman’s pleasure without ever asking her.

I hate this “belief” because it is actually true for women in a love/hate relationship with patriarchy and gluttony. Women have asked me to smack that ass—hard. Now I did not hate to smack that ass but I hate the larger system of lowered sensitivity and confusion. Women are very tough. They largely have higher thresholds of pain than males do—especially me. More than a few women will look down on me for preferring to go slow and gentle with them because they prefer to ride hard most of the time. I’m just keeping it real and letting you know, homes.

17. I have the privilege of not wanting to be a virgin, but preferring that my wife or significant other be a virgin.

I prefer that my wife not have herpes. It is for purely strategic reasons: I do not want to risk an outbreak during pregnancy that might harm our children—and her. I leave all that virginity stuff to wealthy Catholics.

18. When it comes to sex if I say “No”, chances are that it will not be mistaken for “Yes”.

My personality is designed (often against my lustful will) to repulse women who actually do say no and they mean yes. There is no woman sexier than a woman who means yes and can look you straight in the eyes and say, “Yes.” The ideal behind this is that I desire a woman in my life that deliberately chooses to be with me—not one I caught like some soldier riding on horseback in an Indo-European battle field. There are army men and there are family men.

19. If I am raped, no one will assume that “I should have known better” or suggest that my being raped had something to do with how I was dressed.

See “How a Terrifying Moment in Toni Morrison’s Beloved Relates to 1990s Thug Music” and get back to me.

20. I can use sexist language like bonin’, laying the pipe, hittin-it, and banging that convey images of sexual acts based on dominance and performance.

There are army men and there are family men.

21. I can live in a world where polygamy is still an option for men in the United States as well as around the world.

Ousmane Sembène on polygamy:

You have to understand how these women are raised. There’s a real hierarchy—the senior wife, the second wife, and the junior wife. Then the man is the supreme master, so to speak. But, when I say that the man is the supreme master, it is because he believes this. In actuality, the first wife, not the husband, wields the power. People don’t say this, but it’s something that’s unspoken.

That’s why in the context of polygamy in my society, I just see the man as a progenitor—the only role he has is to make babies [laughs]. He has to satisfy his own sexual appetites, but he also has to satisfy the three women’s sexual needs. He’s just a sex machine, so to speak [laughs]. Of course, in this situation there’s inevitably some sort of rivalry between the three wives because they’re often denied sexual satisfaction. And when the man is around, no matter what he’s done during the previous night, he has to perform sexually. To help him perform, the woman feeds him food that functions as an aphrodisiac. Since women know more about these aphrodisiacs than men do, they share their secrets.

22. In general, I prefer being involved with younger women socially and sexually.

I prefer to be with holistically healthy, mature women who can hold a conversation with me. Just read what I have written here and guess what kind of woman you know that would be very eager to talk to me because this woman moves thoughts like gold diggers move mountains. Tell that woman to look me up on Facebook. I won’t hold my breath.

23. In general, the more sexual partners that I have the more stature I receive among my peers.

I do not socialize my sexuality among other males. One might call this behavior of mine “homophobic.” My priority is to get down with one woman several thousand times instead of trying to process several thousand women. It’s a form of yoga—a weird fantasy of co-ed monasticism.

24. I have easy access to pornography that involves virtually any category of sex where men degrade women, often young women.

This is like saying to me that I have “easy access” to bags of refined white sugar to pour directly into my mouth.

25. I have the privilege of being a part of a sex where “purity balls” apply to girls but not to boys.

What the f’ is a “purity ball”? This sounds like teenaged, unregulated American Imperial sex games. There is something known as Imperial Sexuality…

26. When I consume pornography, I can gain pleasure from images and sounds of men causing women pain.

Umm… no.

Popular Culture

27. I come from a tradition of humor that is based largely on insulting and disrespecting women; especially mothers.

The whole point of Black “yo’ momma” jokes is that it actually pisses a real Black man off to have someone talk about his mother. Just because Richard Pryor started a popular movement away from this Black fact has nothing to with me.

28. I have the privilege of not having black women, dress up and play funny characters—often overweight—that are supposed to look like me for the entire nation to laugh.

Tyler Perry had two choices: continue to sleep in his car—because his father would not pay for his education (like mine did)—or dress up like a woman to make white men and Black women laugh. Tyler Perry chose not to sleep in his car. I’m sure Flip Wilson and many others had similar choices. I choose to not call that shit a “privilege.”

29. When I go to the movies, I know that most of the leads in black films are men. I also know that all of the action heroes in black film are men.

Halle Berry will never be another Cleopatra Jones.

30. I can easily imagine that most of the artists in Hip Hop are members of my sex.

I try not to imagine what has become of Hip Hop. Remember that sister in Digable Planets? I wanted LadyBug so bad…

31. I can easily imagine that most of the women that appear in Hip Hop videos are there solely to please men.

I’m still imagining me with LadyBug… hol’ up…

32. Most of lyrics I listen to in hip-hop perpetuate the ideas of males dominating women, sexually and socially.

So what. It sucks. White kids buy it. Next!

33. I have the privilege of consuming and popularizing the word pimp, which is based on the exploitation of women with virtually no opposition from other men.

So what. It sucks. White kids buy it. Next!

34. I can hear and use language bitches and hoes that demean women, with virtually no opposition from men.

So what. It sucks. White kids buy it. Next!

35. I can wear a shirt that others and I commonly refer to as a “wife beater” and never have the language challenged.

So what. It sucks. White kids buy it. Next!

36. Many of my favorite movies include images of strength that do not include members of the opposite sex and often are based on violence.

One of my favorite movies is in “Flippant Remarks about the Double Life of Véronique.”

37. Many of my favorite genres of films, such as martial arts, are based on violence.

There are army men and there are family men.

38. I have the privilege of popularizing or consuming the idea of a thug, which is based on the violence and victimization of others with virtually no opposition from other men.

There are army men and there are family men.


39. I have the privilege to define black women as having “an attitude” without referencing the range of attitudes that black women have.

I think I wade into this deep water very well in “My Three Sexist Assumptions of the Apocalypse.”

40. I have the privilege of defining black women’s attitudes without defining my attitudes as a black man.

This is not so much a Black male privilege as the blindness of egocentrism. Also, I can assure you that I have been expressing my imperfections quite well on this Blog for years and I can only remember one Black woman on this entire planet that responded to me with any form of comprehensive support. She writes “Beautiful, Also, are the Souls of My Black Sisters”—I also recognize attention from The Black Snob. Other than that most of my people are too busy being oppressed or too young to know to care—to care not just for me but for others online (and in the bricks and mortar) as well…

41. I can believe that the success of the black family is dependent on returning men to their historical place within the family, rather than in promoting policies that strengthen black women’s independence, or that provide social benefits to black children.

This item is too deeply invested in European death models to address effectively in the space that I provide myself here.

42. I have the privilege of believing that a woman cannot raise a son to be a man.

This is not a “privilege”—this is a tragedy. No child should spend their formative years influenced by the eyes of one person—especially when the child is male and the parent is a female that deeply “knows” that males are foundationally animalistic and inferior. I’m not here to “debate” this shit with you. It takes a village to raise a child. This shit we are living now is not civilization so it should not be talked about too much…

43. I have the privilege of believing that a woman must submit to her man.

Shut the f’ up. My experience is of the deeper confusion where the woman—especially the Black woman—wants to submit to her man in bizarre, slavish ways that reminds me of my very unpopular opinion of Kara Walker.

There is no greater privilege in my life than to be chosen again and again as a companion by a free, powerful, healthy, wise woman of color. The reason why I distinguish women of color is because of the monumental physical and metaphysical obstacles they have to overcome to be truly free in thought. In the same manner that the male penis goes deep into the physical body, yes, we can go deep into the non-physical body of the woman. Too many women are too, too quick to deny what I am implying here—because what I have seen in the souls of ‘my’ women are imbroglios that truly baffle.

44. I have the privilege of believing that before slavery gender relationships between black men and women were perfect.

Really. Shut the f’ up. The end of the world started when Upper and Lower Egypt was unified. Anything after, is all that indigenous woman-centric cultures built being unraveled and degraded. Yes, it took thousands of years—and here we are…

45. I have the privilege of believing that feminism is anti-black.

Get bell hooks on the phone and get back to me.

46. I have the privilege of believing that the failure of the black family is due to the black matriarchy.

This is literally perverse. This item is of a trend that implies that Black male “privilege” identifies with white male privilege. This is just wrong.

47. I have the privilege of believing that household responsibilities are women’s roles.

First of all, few people that I know actually have a household. Secondly, too many women I know can barely keep a structured domicile for themselves let alone for another person (including children).

Homemaking is a technical skill. Think of how much money fake-ass Martha Stewart has made and perhaps we can have a materialistic idea of how much homemaking is worth in both males and females. Find me an African male—from Africa—that cannot cook and you are probably showing me the son of a cleptocratic, Eurocentric family.

48. I have the privilege of believing that black women are different sexually than other women and judging them negatively based on this belief.

My guess is that this item mixes two debilitating influences on the sexuality of Black women: the traditional need to suppress open, honest sexuality to prevent rape and murder during the era of legal American slavery and the white missionary tradition of suppressing female sexuality that still runs the Black church to this day.

My other guess is that this item suggests that we Black males have the “privilege” to “escape” these debilitating influences on Black women by having more ‘open,’ ‘honest’ sex with women from different so-called “races.”

Many Black men who have spoken to me about this do not consider this a “privilege” but, at best, an “alternative” and at worst the last resort. Do remember that the Black men that speak to me (about these personal issues) are not famous Hollywood actors, investment bankers, sports stars or any celebrity of any kind.

What about me? I have yet to have a serious, adult, long-lasting relationship with a non-Black woman. That does not mean I have not tried! Hey! Look me up on Facebook, G!


I am just going to avoid covering the sports section point by point. I just have two comments: one is that women have the right to be dumb jocks too. And, two, I do remember playing soccer (football) in the park on a hot summer day with a beautiful Haitian-American woman named Fay Jasmine Walker. She became seriously angry when I took my shirt off because she knew she could not take hers off. She also knew that she was physically fit and very comfortable with her chocolate-body self-image. I felt so strongly for her that I put my shirt back on… I have told this story to many other women—many of whom not as physically fit as Jasmine—and these ladies aggressively don’t care to know just what the big deal was…


61. I have the privilege of being a part of a sex where the mutilation and disfigurement of a girl’s genitalia is used to deny her sexual sensations or to protect her virginity for males.

Again this is not a “privilege”—this is just ostentatious sarcasm.

62. I have the privilege of not having rape be used as a primary tactic or tool to terrorize my sex during war and times of conflict.

More ostentatious sarcasm.

63. I have the privilege of not being able to name one female leader in Africa or Asia, past or present, that I pay homage to the way I do male leaders in Africa and/or Asia.

Ancient Japan was ruled by women. I tend to remember this quite frequently. In Africa, in the Old Kingdom, the women chose the male king. Sounds complicated but the bottom line is that women ruled in composition with men.

64. I have the ability to travel around the world and have access to women in developing countries both sexually and socially.

I mentioned “Flippant Remarks about the ‘mass exodus of African American male tourists to Brazil’” earlier.

65. I have the privilege of being a part of the sex that starts wars and that wields control of almost all the existing weapons of war and mass destruction.

Again, the author too easily confuses white patriarchy with traditional African manhood. I understand how easy it is to do this, but he should stop. Stopping this will make him a better person but he will get fewer dates with the population of properly-assimilated women and their confused, malformed love/hate of patriarchy.

66. In college, I will have the opportunity to date outside of the race at a much higher rate than black women will.

Black women actually shunned me at UCSB. There were so few of them there. Remember those girls with the skin color issues? They did not disappear—as much as they would like to deny it. At 21, I married a Latina. She was brown like my mother… but still, to this day, very white (self-alienated) on the inside…

67. I have the privilege of having the phrase “sewing my wild oats” apply to my sex as if it were natural.

Please. Go make me some ho’ cakes.

68. I know that the further I go in education the more success I will have with women.

Wrong! Very wrong. It’s the money that you get from an education that attracts many women—not the education itself. Only one Black woman talked to me at length about how aroused she got when she began to feel my thoughts. Those were the good ol’ days…

69. In college, black male professors will be involved in interracial marriages at much higher rates than members of the opposite sex will.

Okay… you are losing your liberal, Negro audience with this one…

70. By the time I enter college, and even through college, I have the privilege of not having to worry whether I will be able to marry a black woman.

This is just a fucking joke. I’m living proof. Check this: “Flippant Remarks about ‘Getting the Love You Want’.”

71. In college, I will experience a level of status and prestige that is not offered to black women even though black women may outnumber me and out perform me academically.

Yes, I wish I went to Howard instead of UCSB.

72. If I go to an HBCU, I will have incredible opportunities to exploit black women.

Yes, I wish I went to Howard instead of UCSB. I would have had my savior complex turned up to 11. Supposedly, to this day, I would have a fiercely devoted young, educated, healthy Black woman at my side because she would have known that I was actually serious about the power of woman—instead of the old, bitter, cynical bats flying around me today thinking they are “smart” for not taking me seriously. Instead, I went to school in Ronald Reagan’s backyard.


73. What is defined as “News” in Black America is defined by men.

This item is of a trend that implies that Black male “privilege” identifies with white male privilege.

74. I can choose to be emotionally withdrawn and not communicate in a relationships and it be considered unfortunate but normal.

My experience is that “normal” women prefer this. I have memories of women wanting to talk—but it’s actually them doing most of the talking. I am very serious about being a poet so what I say makes too many women want to make me shut f’ up. When I speak, I speak to penetrate. I know that sounds like more male violence but it depends on how the penetration is done and the quality of the surface being breached.

75. I can dismissively refer to another persons grievances as ^*ing.

This is more white shit in Negro form. Very annoying and not me… When you find me dismissing you, this is after I tried to talk to you—several times. Remember those women who literally asked to have their asses slapped I mentioned earlier? These tough ladies can’t feel it when someone is actually trying to speak with them. Often, through past sexist experiences, that don’t have damn thang to do with me, these ladies are over-prepared not to be heard and are underprepared and ill-equipped to actually have the conversation. Again, I refer you to “My Three Sexist Assumptions of the Apocalypse.”

76. I have the privilege of not knowing what words and concepts like patriarchy, phallocentric, complicity, colluding, and obfuscation mean.

Yeah, that’s me—or you can’t read. In the past, too many women would rather think of themselves as literate and educated, while I permanently remain, to this day, a complete idiot. Do I sound bitter, sweetie? This honestly does not anger me because I have seen what kind intimate relationships some of these “smart” women have (or never have) and then I learn something new about poverty in the world.


77. I have the privilege of marrying outside of the race at a much higher rate than black women marry.

To be blunt, many Black women (especially the younger ones) are not truly, deeply upset about Black men marrying women of European origin. What pisses some sisters off is Black men with Asian women—one bad theory for this is that many Asian women do not meet the European beauty standard that rules so many of our lives—so why would a Black man be attracted?

78. My “strength” as a man is never connected with the failure of the black family, whereas the strength of black women is routinely associated with the failure of the black family.

This statement of “privilege” is just gay.

79. If I am considering a divorce, I know that I have substantially more marriage, and cohabitation options than my spouse.

Yes, but by the way she act—she does not know this… that’s just the horror that is patriarchy—and it is too easy to find women that will consciously and non-consciously defend it.

80. Chances are I will be defined as a “good man” by things I do not do as much as what I do. If I don’t beat, cheat, or lie, then I am a considered a “good man”. In comparison, women are rarely defined as “good women” based on what they do not do.

In my experience, these are “privileges” women (who will consciously and non-consciously defend patriarchy) impose upon males.

81. I have the privilege of not having to assume most of the household or child-care responsibilities.

Again, in my experience, these are “privileges” women (who will consciously and non-consciously defend patriarchy) impose upon males. My mother was not playing that shit. I can run a house better than most sets of three women combined. Women, largely, do not praise me for this. They got too many f’ed up problems to go around praising people all the time.

82. I have the privilege of having not been raised with domestic responsibilities of cooking, cleaning, and washing that takes up disproportionately more time as adults.

Wrong. It is because of these domestic skills that makes me proud even arrogant. This power is part of an aesthetic that I value—like ancient priests cleaning the temple.

Church & Religious Traditions

83. In the Black Church, the majority of the pastoral leadership is male.


84. In the Black Church Tradition, most of the theology has a male point of view. For example, most will assume that the man is the head of household.


Physical Safety

85. I do not have to worry about being considered a traitor to my race if I call the police on a member of the opposite sex.

The framing of this item is just flawed. Most Black men don’t even want to see the police—on a television.

86. I have the privilege of knowing men who are physically or sexually abusive to women and yet I still call them friends.

Naw… not really… you can have a friend from childhood that you are real close to but as this child grows older into a male adult they sometimes admit things in passing that weakens the bond… as time passes the bond gets weaker…

87. I can video tape women in public—often without their consent—with male complicity.

Again, I do not share my sexuality with males as some kind ritual of “bonding”—I was not into team sports that much while growing up.

88. I can be courteous to a person of the opposite sex that I do not know and say “Hello” or “Hi” and not fear that it will be taken as a come-on or fear being stalked because of it.

I actually hate—deeply hate—the fact that a lone woman cannot stop me on the street and introduce herself to me because most are afraid of being physically violated. When we simply must be racist about this matter, I notice that “white” women are the most comfortable with this rare behavior—and this also makes me angry (because this is one way some Black men think life is better apart from Black women—and “white” women often do this in ‘exclusive situations’ where the socioeconomics often bar Black women from the scene).

89. I can use physical violence or the threat of physical violence to get what I want when other tactics fail in a relationship.

I have never done this—but I know that (especially in my younger days) some women actually wanted me to be like this. This is because some women under patriarchy only have materialistic/physical concepts of strength and dominance. And they want to have the wartime experience of being with a “real” man.

90. If I get into a physical altercation with a person of the opposite sex, I will most likely be able to impose my will physically on that person.

In my little world of unpopularity, the greatest “punishment” I have for a woman is to “banish” her. I’m one of those strange people that actually thinks a woman is pleased simply by being in my presence—and to take that away from her is violence enough… This punishment is not very effective but, by habit, it’s all I have… maybe I should teach myself to body slam people…

91. I can go to parades or other public events and not worry about being physically and sexually molested by persons of the opposite sex.

Have you been to West Hollywood on the wrong day?

92. I can touch and physically grope women’s bodies in public—often without their consent—with male complicity.

There are army men and there are family men.

93. In general, I have the freedom to travel in the night without fear.

Yes. And I cannot stand people who live in fear. But many men who travel the streets of Iraq at night are very afraid.

94. I am able to be out in public without fear of being sexually harassed by individuals or groups of the opposite sex.

Have you been to West Hollywood on the wrong day? I may be forty but I’m still pretty, baby! Snap! Snap! Snap!